Culture and Cocktails

Had a fabby dabby time with the girls yesterday!

We were very cultured and went to the British Museum! That place is huge and absolutely stunning especially the reading room. It is so large that we only went to the Egyptian section saw the mummys and the Rossetta Stone very cultured! Managed to get a couple of good pics but the place was teeming with tourists shouldn't complain as they are improving the UK economy by being here!

After the culture did the cocktails! They were delicious you can not bet a good espresso martini in fact can't bet several - lol. Had a lovely dinner at Christopher's as well.

We were like loonies yesterday and I told a few of my secrets! The ones you already know! Tried to get into the Topshop London Fashion Week show but that didn't work! Saw no celebs either :o(

Top the evening went to the flicks and saw Valentines Day - it was ok it wasn't great and corney but a nice movie. Woah listen to me film critic now rather be a cocktail critic.

To finish the weekend get to see SP which is a bonus! He can't make next weekend but I get his cock this weekend instead :o)))))

Over thinking....

Hmmm feeling very philosophical!! Why? Because I am worrying whether I have done the right thing by applying for that new job!!! I have been listening to too many people who are freaking me out! I don't know if I really want it anymore it is starting to sound all too scary and my 'safety blankets' will all have left the company.

Why do I want the job I ask myself -
1. My grade I need to be seen to want more
2. Fretting when new grading structure introduced that I will be down graded
3. Need to be in the know

Why not take the job -
1. Would be happier doing what I am currently
2. Appraisals will be cut-throat
3. Further promotion this is a stepping stone to the next grade

This is all bit too deep for a Wednesday morning on the tube - which is working surprising well. But hey that is me over thinking everything, I need to relax and go with the flow!! ;o) That would be a big personality shift!

Also feeling bit low as SP not bbmed after yesterday so after some reassurance from him! Which I won't get but I knew that before I started the 'non-relationship' and I know he is busy this week!

But hey ho enough for now off to work I go in these changing times which I knew where coming but now are here I am freaking....

No more maths....

Super duper SP has finally passed the maths part of his training! Thank God cos the failing was turning him into very dull boy indeed!!! LOL I knew he would pass today as he was relaxed basically he had decided he was going to quit the AST upgrade on Thursday (his birthday after failing again) so did very little revision over the weekend as he was told on Friday to take the test one last time today and low and behold he passes!!!! Wohoo and a woop woop

So after nearly three months of grumpy, whingey and non chatty SP I finally get the person I like back! Oh and yes I have just been shagged (several times) to an inch of my life and long may it continue as he won't have to revise and can meet me! He banged me hard and think they could hear my screams across London! ;o) his dick was on fire! He had it hitting all the right spots especially from behind when he slammed it into me and pulled it out so he was tickling my clit and christ he kept doing that until I was screaming and dripping wet and then he starts adding the twist as he slamming me! I was well and truly fucked by him, he made me come hard (so did he)! Well he did get (even if I say it myself) some rather spectacular blow jobs.

Absolutely loving this friends with benefits or 'non relationship' ;o)))) (that is a really big big grin as I can't keep it off my face). Well so would you if you had been shagged like I have (especially as it has been 5 1/2 weeks since he banged me last! stupid maths revision)

Ok so nice and fit SP is back and can bbm chat as well!!

That's it for now....

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Good Day

Short and sweet today...........

SP has been in a chatty mood been bbming most of the day!! yay

It's his birthday next week but can't meet - boo hoo

But I have made it clear I am in need of a shag and so is he - so hopefuly will be able to sort something out!! - finally getting desperate

Another reason why I want the snow to go so I can make firm travel plans to meet!

Also have finalised my job application and CV - it looks good even if I say so myself but hey I need to sell myself!

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Snow.......................

Yes I know kids love it but I hate it............................

SNOW

Makes life just too difficult
I can fall over - I know I do that anyway but the chances are higher
I can't get to work - yes I can work from home but everything is just soooo slow
I can't see SP (new code for 'non-relationship') cos in desperate need haven't had a shag since 10th Dec and need one NOW

so here are some pics from today of it looking pretty................................

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Shooting for the stars............ok may be just the sky to start

15091 days old and have managed to achieve 1 of my resolutions and started to work on another!!!

Day 5 of 2010..............

 - blog has been set up and as it is all new and shiney still blogged 2 days in a row
 - I have started to shoot for the stars by applying for a team leader role within the same company. It is a step in getting hold of my career

Let's have a woop woop and a wohoo for me!

Short and sweet today as need to be working on my CV and job application

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Two posts in one day - 2010 Resolutions

Ok I know it is 4 days into twenty ten not two thousand and ten but goodbye noughties and hello teenies here are my resolutions for 2010.

1. Start keeping a diary of my musings again - need a faceless outlet for all those thoughts, ideas and words I have spinning in my head and 'purple' world
2. Facebook more - no I haven't gone mad but I need to keep in better contact with old friends and Fb is the only way
3. Tweet more - so I can find inspiration from others
4. Linkedin more - need to grow my career connections
5. Take more photos - I don't claim to be a photographer and just use a basic Samsung digital camera but I want a better pictorial record of my life
6. Take hold of my career - there are job opportunties out there that I need to explore and aim for. I need to start shooting for the stars
7. Be more honest with my self and others about my 'non relationship' - I know a small part of me is not being totally honest about how I truly feel about 'my friend with benefits'
8. Actually learn how to and use my Blackberry to it's full potential - there is sooo much more I can do with my 'purpleberry' apart from bbming
9. Visit as many of these cities as I can in 2010 - Athens, NYC, Hong Kong and Sydney
10. Loosen up - I need to be less serious when playin' sometimes just need to be more relaxed and less stressed/ocd about things
11. Shop less - I need to do some serious saving this year and the only way I will achieve this is if I shop less
12. Try different Sport & Social events than I usually do - need to expand my cultural activites beyond musicals, ballet and opera

So here's to me achieving all of the above this year!

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15090 days old!!!!!

OK this is the 1st time I have written a blog so here goes……………

Why? - because as 1 of my New Years Resolutions I have decided to keep a diary again I did keep one in my ‘youth’ for a few years so in the age of technology where else do you keep a diary but online hence a1girl44 Musings has been created!

Who is it for? - moi. These posts are my ramblings and thoughts. I will only post when the mood takes me so don't expect a daily agenda of my life. You can read and comment if you want but please be constructive and not rude. This blog is for ME AND NOT YOU.

Who am I? - as the title says I am 15090 days old (you work it out)! Female who lives in Hertfordshire and works in London. What do I do you ask? I am an IT professional that works for a FTSE100 company. The work is not exciting or glamorous but I enjoy it. I am single as my long time partner/husband died 2 years ago of cancer. Yes it was a difficult time and as the cliché says life goes on and this partly why I started writing my musings in a blog. Am I happy now - yes I am as I have dealt and come to terms with losing him - he was the 'love' of my life. I am in a good place now. Am I looking for another relationship? In short NO but never say never! Whoever was my next long term relationship would have to deal with my madness and weird ways. Yes I have 'needs' so I have a 'non-relationship' or 'friend with benefits' that sort those out  - but more musings on that in future posts.

Future? - who knows what that brings but I hope to post about some of the following
Shopping - my passion I am a woman enough said! It is my vice (along with smoking).

NYC - my dream location. If I could live and work anywhere else in world it would have to be in Manhattan.

Music - my soundtrack to life! I am a child of the '70's, a teen of the '80's and a worker of the '90's hence my musical taste explained.
Non-Relationship - my guily secret and pleasure! This is a new experience and so out of character for me having a 'friend with benefits' and I need somewhere faceless to voice my thoughts and feelings.
Purple - my signature colour. I am known as the 'purple princess'

The above is only a snippet of who and what makes me tick! More will be revealed as the more I post!

If someone other than me is reading this then I hope you enjoyed it and gonna read it in the future and please leave constructive comments. If no-one else is reading this then ce la vie! As I wrote earlier I am blogging for me and no one else.

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